Tuesday 29 April 2014

MIND THE GAP

There’s a gap between where we stand, and where we’re trying to go. 

To be successful on our journey, we have to be aware of this space and prudent when crossing it. 

We have to mind the gaps of growth.
  • The Assumption Gap: Assuming Growth Is Automatic

Growth doesn’t just happen. Most people expect to grow naturally, as if by osmosis they can somehow magically absorb the lessons of life. They have no plan for purposeful improvement. They want to fix their problems, but they’re not intentional about fixing themselves. Since they neglect personal growth, they never manage to navigate the growth gap that separates their present reality from their future hopes and dreams.
  • The Knowledge Gap: Not Knowing How to Grow

The average person spends more time planning their vacation than their personal growth. Why do people devote so little attention to such a vital concern? Oftentimes, people are unwilling to bet on themselves. They want others to invest in them, but they’re unwilling to put their own time, money, and reputation on the line in order to better their lives. If you don’t expect yourself to succeed, why should anyone else? You won’t care to know how to grow until you’re convinced that you have extraordinary potential and confident that you can fulfill it.
  • The Timing Gap: Sensing the Time Isn’t Right to Begin

Lots of people embrace a philosophy that’s pro-life and procrastination. They want to live it up today so they delay doing anything requiring diligent effort and hard work. However, the longer you wait to do something you should do now the greater the odds that you will never do it.
  • The Mistake Gap: Fearing Failure.

Whenever we dare to try anything great, we’re going to fail somewhere along the way. You’re guaranteed to mess up from time to time as a leader. Avoiding mistakes doesn’t bring success; it keeps you trapped at your current level of growth.
  • The Inspiration Gap: Feeling Unmotivated.

Winners do what is right and then feel good as a result. Whiners want to feel good before they do what is right. Life involves an inescapable amount of pain, but it’s far better to endure the pain of discipline today than to suffer the pain of regret later.

Thought to Ponder: Which of the growth gaps has been the hardest for you to cross? Why?

‘Segun ‘Sonowo
(Meaningful Living)


Ref.: http://www.johnmaxwell.com/blog/mind-the-gap?utm_source=WhatCounts+Publicaster+Edition&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Mind+the+Gap&utm_content 

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